Well............after 7 hours of testing and more testing I finally was able to install the lastest patch of 1.12 and it works!!

I was even able to install the historical accuracy mod (fast install) and that worked also....can you believe it.....I know I cant......woot.....yay....alright

for the longest time I had to play this game under version 1.09 until finally I read the post under Ardie and Pocus response to it and then it suddenly sunk in.....thank you Ardie and Pocus ......I said to myself it must be a setting and sure enough it was.......I can play with music on ....sounds on......what I found was under the system options....I took off all the checks except for memory usage set to max and max texture set to very large.....I left those two checks on and wow....I have never seen the game load so fast.....I was even able to start a campaign under verison 1.12 with no problems so Pocus please disregard my email I sent to you and for everyone else.....hopefully this will help some of you who are experiencing the same problem.....I really do hope this helps

and a big thank you to Ardie for posting and for Pocus for responding to that post....it certainly helped me out...........woot

and now finally back to the game.....woot
Thanks