My proposal
169 CSA John B. Gordon ldr_CSA_Gordon2 $Surpriser $charismatic $Gifted_Cmd NULL 9 10 2 26 General 1 NULL 6 5 3
213 CSA John B. Gordon ldr_CSA_Gordon $Surpriser $Charismatic $Gifted_Cmd NULL 4 4 1 39 General 1 NULL 6 5 3
I know you've said there are too many charismatic commanders but I think it fits.
Lee's most dependable commander in the last year of the war.
At the Wilderness he was prevented from launching a flank attack for 9 hours by Ewell and Early. When Lee became aware of the situation and approved the attack only an hour of daylight remained. Gordon inflicted 1200 casualties and suffered only 50.
At Spotsylvania his division counterattacked 4 union divisions and restored the confederate line.
At Monocacy he flanked and routed some of the same union troops he had flanked at the Wilderness.
At Cedar Creek he planned and led the flank attack that routed one union corps and badly damaged another. He was prevented by Early from attacking the third.
Led the last attack of the Army of Northern Virginia at Appomattox. He captured the breastworks held by union cavalry only to find Ord's infantry in his path.