I'm afraid this installation discipline is just too much for a bear of little brain to cope with. Could I walk you through my process so that you might identify what I'm doing wrong?
Hoping that the answer is "yes", this is how I roll.
PC > Documents > My Games > To End All Wars > EAW
This gives me a display of folders titled Events, GameData, Logs, Saves, Scens, Scripts, Settings
Following this I've placed the Patch_EAW_v1.04_public patch
When I attempt to run it I'm asked to select my installation destination.
I respond with C:\Documents\My Games\To End All Wars\EAW and hit continue.
The machine does its job and informs me that Setup has finished installing "to End all Wars" on my computer and advises me to click "Finish".
I note the use of lower case but assume it's of no consequence and comply.
I hit my on-screen shortcut (calling itself "To End All Wars (Game Menu))
It responds by displaying a "To End All Wars breaking the deadlock" entry screen.
I hit "Play To End All Wars".
Things whir and in the bottom right-hand corner is displayed "EAW 1.03 (May 26 2015).
Help me Rhonda.